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Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts

Sunday, August 18, 2013

old friends

I am blessed to have life long friends.  Of course there is Evie, who I've known for over 38 years, and luckily get to see every day.  Then there are my old friends, Amelia and Jeff... I've known Amelia for 43 years, and Jeff just a little less than that.  I don't get to see them very often... sometimes years can pass between visits.  But when I see them it is like we just take up where we left off.  There is no distance or time that can undo that.
I visited them earlier this week with Tree, Melis, and Logan.  Jeff didn't get home till late, so we didn't have that much time with him, unfortunately, but it was a great day all around.
Amelia worked on a pair of pants that I needed taken in, having lost 3 sizes since I last wore it.  She is quite the seamstress, and this outfit was for her daughter's wedding, come October.  I was going to take them to a tailor, but she insisted.  I couldn't refuse.
It was a day filled with love.  Their house is like that.  It's very refreshing.

sharing some good food, and pretzels, too!

Tree helping Logan with penmanship


Amelia at the sewing machine


Jeff playing Angry Birds with Logan


Thursday, October 18, 2012

154-157 gypsies, twilight, friendship, the pink bubble

For today's freewrite, we chose 4 of our random subjects to do in 5 min increments.  This quasi-true story unfolded.

During twilight, on an autumn's eve, two friends walked the avenue, and came upon a neon sign in a store window.  It was a pink bubble, meant to be a looking glass.  The sign said "Come in."
They walked over the threshold of the storefront, and came upon a round table with a long blue tablecloth, and a woman in a bandana, who was a gypsy.
"Come, sit, I tell you everything, give me your hand." she said in a heavy accent.
The twilight came through the store window, making everything look blue.
The friends looked at each other.
"I'm game if you are." one of them said.
The gypsy looked deeply at them , as if to penetrate their very thoughts.
"You have had many troubles, yes?" she said to the blue eyed girl, who looked at her friend, and couldn't help but let a giggle out.  The green-eyed girl couldn't contain a laugh.
"I've had a few." she said, trying to be composed.
"There is a man, yes?" the gypsy said.
"Where? Who? the blue eyed one looked around herself, and both of them laughed out loud.
"No laugh." said the gypsy.  "Dark energy, this man, yes? He gets angry."
"No, he really doesn't" she told her, an just about lost all faith in the gypsy as being all knowing.
The two friends left the store soon after.  The blue eyed one was told that for $20 more she could help take the bad energies away.
The twilight had all but disappeared and the pink bubble glowed in the night.
"Wait," the blue eyed one said, "I want to take a picture of this pink globe thing in the window".  Just then, the gypsy lady came out the door.  "Come again tomorrow night at the same time, and I will read for both of you, half price."
They looked at each other, said "What the hell." and agreed to return the next evening.
Back at home, they downloaded the picutre of the pink bubble, and it fairly glowed on the computer screen.  A lovely shade of pink.
"We'll see if she has anything real to tell us tomorrow, I guess, or we'll just be out ten bucks.
The next evening, at the fall of twilight, they set out for the gypsy'store.  The weather was getting cooler now.
They stepped into the store.
"Yes, yes, you come back', the gypsy smiled, and two women peeked out from behind the curtain.
"I tell your fortune together."
She turned over both their palms.
"See?" she pointed at their palms, "Friends for life, but here is a wide space where one goes away for a long long time, but here, they come back together.
The girls looked at each other, wondering which one would go away.
And so it came to pass that the green eyed one met a sailor who would take her to live in California, while the blue eyed one stayed in New York.
Eighteen years would pass before the green eyed one came home again, and now sits beside her friend, writing freewrites at twilight, and sometimes visiting gypsies.



*A free-write is a type of automatic writing, where you just go with your stream of consciousness non-stop. There's no thought to spelling or grammar, and no editing of words. Supposedly this opens the mind up to greater creativity. They can be 5, 10 or 20 minutes long. Suggestions for freewrites are always welcome. Visit Evie, with whom I freewrite, at the space between colors.

Friday, February 3, 2012

37 years of friendship

Today we have known each other for 37 years!  We met back in college when we were in our early 20's, in a class called something like "A workshop in the Creative Process", and were fast friends from the start.  Evie moved away to San Diego for 18 years, and we maintained our friendship through tomes of letter writing, and a visit back and forth over the years.  When Evie's mom was dying in 1996, she came back her to be with her, and has since stayed in New York.  She lives right across the hall from me now, and we see each other all the time.  I am blessed to have such a friendship all my life.  Please visit evie at her blog: http://www.evietirado.blogspot.com/.

Me and my friend, Evie..... back then....


(on the back of a truck, heading into Tiajuana, Mexico)

And today...